How men justify cheatig

One of the most confusing aspects of being cheated on is how your cheating partner can claim that they didn’t think about you, your kids, home, family, friends, community, or employment – especially if they cheated with someone at work, before they cheated or even while they were cheating.

While on the surface it defies belief that someone could intentionally take all the steps and actions necessary to have an affair (or affairs) and claim that they never thought it would hurt you, this show explains why it makes sense, and how it is possible for your partner to never think that their cheating would hurt you.

Top Take-a-ways:
  • How and why it’s possible that your spouse did not think of you or the consequences of cheating while he was cheating.
  • Compartmentalization and how a normal defense mechanism that enables us to function in everyday life helps cheaters maintain a double life.
  • The difference between the male brain and the female brain and how men are not wired to see connections between different areas of their lives.
  • Masculinization, culture, and how we inadvertently train men to disconnect from their emotions.



Lora Cheadle is an infidelity survivor who uses the concepts in burlesque to help women reclaim their identity and self-worth after betrayal so they can move forward with confidence, embrace their sexy, and create a life they love!

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