Meet Lora
Meet Lora Cheadle
Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt, is an attorney, TEDx speaker, author, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and betrayal recovery expert. She is the creator of Life Choreography® and the FLAUNT!® Framework.
After discovering her husband’s 15 years of infidelity, Lora had to learn to trust her own reality again, advocate for herself, and decide how she wanted to live.
Now she helps women do the same—reclaim their identity, self-worth, and what they let go of along the way, and create a life that works for them too, whether they stay or leave.
Lora’s approach
A Different Kind of Betrayal Recovery
Betrayal affects more than your relationship. It can shake your sense of reality, your self-trust, your identity, and your ability to know what to do next.
That’s why Lora’s work goes beyond understanding the affair.
She brings together emotional healing, nervous system regulation, somatic work, hypnotherapy, practical discernment, and the perspective of an attorney to help women understand what is true, advocate effectively for themselves, and make decisions from clarity instead of fear.
Lora doesn’t tell women whether to stay or leave. She helps them understand what is true, advocate for what they need, and make decisions they can live with.
Trust Your Reality Again
Separate what you know from fear, hope, pressure, and confusion—and begin trusting your own perception and judgment again.
Advocate for Yourself
Know what you need, what you will no longer sacrifice, and what meaningful repair would actually require.
Reclaim Your Life
Recover the parts of yourself you let go of along the way and begin creating a life that works for you too.
Her story
Why This Work Is Personal
I thought betrayal was something that happened to other people. To people with bad marriages or poor communication. So when I discovered my husband’s 15 years of infidelity, I felt completely blindsided. I didn’t just question him. I questioned everything I thought I knew—about my marriage, myself, and my ability to trust what was real. For a while, I honestly could not imagine how I would ever feel happy again.
What surprised me was how hard it was to find the kind of support I actually needed. Some things helped, but others left me more confused, more focused on what I should have done differently, and more disconnected from myself, my future, and my truth. Eventually I realized that healing was not about digging endlessly through the past or waiting for my husband to finally “see the light.” It was about choosing myself and finally becoming the woman I had always wanted to be, but had never quite known how to become.
That realization changed everything—and it shaped the work I do today. I help women move from feeling defined by what happened to becoming the creator of the next chapter of their lives.
Betrayal may shatter the life you thought you had, but it does not get to define the life you create next.
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