Evidence-informed betrayal recovery

Betrayal can shatter the life you thought you had.

But it does not get to define the life you create next.

If you feel broken, overwhelmed, or keep asking, “How is this my life?” you’re in the right place.The Life Choreography® Method is a trauma-informed, evidence-informed approach to betrayal recovery that honors your whole experience—helping you move forward with clarity and the confidence to trust yourself again.

You don’t need to know what you need.

Tell Me What’s Going On

Betrayal Uncovers the Truth. What Follows Shapes Everything.

Betrayal reveals truths you never wanted to face. About your relationship. About the life you built. About the stories you’ve believed. And, perhaps most importantly, about yourself.

What happens next isn’t about getting back to who you were before. It’s about discernment. Deciding who you’ll become because of what has been revealed.

You can spend years trying to make sense of the past.Or you can begin reclaiming yourself.

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Lora Cheadle

Meet Lora

Hi there, I’m Lora Cheadle

Discovering my husband’s long-term infidelity shattered everything I thought I knew—my marriage, my confidence, even my sense of self. What followed became the foundation of the work I do today.

As I rebuilt my life, I realized betrayal isn’t just a relationship crisis. It’s an identity crisis. It affects every part of your life, yet most support addresses only one piece of the experience.

Today, through the Life Choreography® Method, I integrate trauma-informed betrayal recovery, nervous system regulation, hypnotherapy, somatic practices, and practical guidance to help women regain clarity, trust themselves again, and intentionally create a life that reflects who they are now.

Because betrayal changes everything.But it doesn’t get to dictate who you become.

Meet Lora

As seen on

  • TEDxUStreetWomen

    106K+ views

  • FOX 5 DC, Good Day DC

    3 appearances

  • PIX11, WPIX New York
  • SiriusXM Canada Talks
  • 9NEWS, Colorado & Company
  • KATU, Afternoon Live
  • WFLA News Channel 8, Bloom TV
  • Elephant Journal
  • Thrive Global
  • KOA NewsRadio, iHeartRadio

In their words

What It’s Like to Work With Lora

  • When everything felt confusing and overwhelming, working with Lora helped me slow down and see clearly. I never felt rushed or pushed toward a decision — just supported in understanding what was happening and what mattered most to me. I left feeling steadier, more grounded, and able to trust myself again.
    L. S.
  • Working with Lora helped me feel steadier and less overwhelmed during a really difficult time. I’m making progress, feeling less triggered, and learning how to take things one step at a time. The clarity and support I received made a real difference.
    J. R.
  • I spent months going back and forth, trying to decide what to do. Working with Lora helped me slow down, sit with my choices, and reconnect with myself. I now feel peaceful, grounded, and confident in the direction I’m moving — without regret or self-doubt.
    H. A.
  • Working with Lora gave me both clarity and steadiness. She brings deep knowledge, discernment, and compassion into every interaction, and I always felt supported without being pushed. Whether one-on-one or in a group setting, her guidance helped me see the truth of my situation and trust myself again.
    K. W.
  • Lora brings clarity, steadiness, and discernment to every conversation. Her guidance consistently helped calm my fears and restore my sense of trust. I don’t place my confidence easily, but working with Lora helped me feel grounded, supported, and clear about what mattered most.
    A. M.
  • Lora brings both knowledge and care into her work. I always felt safe, heard, and never judged. She took the time to answer my questions and helped me be honest with myself in a way that felt grounding and supportive. Working with her helped me reconnect with my sense of worth and begin healing with clarity and steadiness.
    S. L.

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