You and your life have been irreparably changed. If you are anything like I was, you are desperate to forget – to go back to a life where your illusions, trust, and heart have not been broken. Obsessive thoughts fill your mind, and you alternate between sobbing on the floor and desperately trying to figure it all out.
There were days I couldn’t get off the floor or quit crying. I thought the pain would never end and I as hard as I’d try, I couldn’t wrap my head around the reality of what happened. Eating, sleeping, and thinking were beyond me, and the idea of ever being able to function – let alone be happy again seemed like fantasy.
What I wanted was a happy ending. What I wanted was a way to figure it all out, to understand what was really going on, why it had happened, and to have it all make some sort of sense.
First, you need to temporarily suppress the pain so you can sleep. So you can eat. So you can make appointments, make decisions, get off the floor and start putting one foot in front of the other until you can reclaim who you are and figure out what you want.
Second, you need a direction in which to look. You need hope, inspiration, and something to hang on to that keeps you moving ahead into a future of your choosing instead of falling into victim-hood and ending up bitter, resentful, and filled with revenge or hate.
Third, you need a community of people who have been where you are, and have flourished. The pain of infidelity is unique and you need connection with people who will not judge you, shame you, or rush you as pick up the pieces of your life and begin again.
Stop ruminating on the past and start looking forward to the future! Yes, it will be different than you anticipated, planned, and worked so hard to create – it will be better. Without question, I know that infidelity is not an act of destruction, but is an invitation for a better life.
Will you accept that invitation?
This journaling exercise shows you how to Write the Screenplay for the Next Chapter of Your Life. Even if you are sad, angry, confused, or have no desire to begin again right now.
You get explicit instructions, a downloadable workbook, a monthly support group, and a Facebook Community of women who have been exactly where you are at, and have flourished. Not in spite of infidelity, but because of it!
Don’t suffer another second! Begin your healing today!
Delete Drama and Feel Better Fast 53 minute guided meditation,
FLAUNT! Your Brand New Season & Writing The Screenplay of Your Life chapter,
My Life Choreography Journal, instant downloadable journal
Sunday Sanity monthly support calls, and the
Betrayed to Brilliant – Flourish after Infidelity Facebook Community.
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Questions & Answers
- Sunday Sanity Support calls take place the third Sunday of the month at 6:30 PM PST/9:30 PM EST. Register at: https://www.meetup.com/Healing-from-Infidelity-Betrayal-Meetup-Group/manage/settings/?success=details
- Join the Betrayed to Brilliant – Flourish After Infidelity Facebook Community https://www.facebook.com/groups/295371218873642