Starting Strong: 90 Days to Get Clear After Betrayal

Feel steady. Think clearly. Make decisions you won’t regret.

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If you’ve been betrayed, your mind is spinning and nothing feels certain.

You don’t need more information that you are too stressed to integrate.
You need calm, regulation, and a way to move forward without making mistakes you’ll regret.

Starting Strong gives you exactly that.

Using my clinically backed FLAUNT!® Framework, we work through the mental, emotional, somatic, and practical layers of betrayal—so you can finally think clearly and move forward.

Everything you need to stay grounded after betrayal—without spinning:

  • Private Coaching & Support
    Three 1:1 sessions with Lora for legal support, emotional grounding, and next-step strategy from someone who’s been where you are—and made it through.
  • Hypnotherapy for Obsessive Thoughts
    Three MP3s to soothe your nervous system and reclaim your brain so you regain control—fast.
  • Daily Grounding
    Two beautifully designed, downloadable journals with quick prompts to center your mind and emotions each day.
  • Guided Micro-Meditations
    Short practices that ease anxiety, reset your thoughts, and support healing over time.
  • Somatic Processing Tools
    Simple movement to release painful emotions from your body so you feel lighter and more in control.
  • Gentle Movement Library
    Yoga, stretching, and dance videos for all levels—rebuild confidence and reconnect with your body.
  • Somatic Map Worksheet
    Track your triggers, measure your progress, and uncover hidden emotional blocks.
  • 24/7 Betrayal Lifeline Voxer Support
    In-the-moment help when triggers hit—no waiting for your next session or spiraling alone.

How You Get Clear & Calm (Even When Everything Feels Uncertain)

Most women try to think their way through betrayal.

But betrayal—especially infidelity—doesn’t just affect your thoughts. It disrupts your nervous system, your sense of safety, and your ability to trust yourself.

That’s why you feel stuck.

Starting Strong is a structured betrayal recovery program designed to help you:

  • Calm your nervous system so you can think clearly again
  • Understand your options—including legal and practical realities after infidelity
  • Process what’s happening without getting overwhelmed
  • Make grounded decisions you won’t regret

This isn’t about rushing your healing.
It’s about stabilizing yourself so you can move forward with clarity after betrayal.

Daily Grounding & Structure

Short, simple practices to steady your mind and reduce overwhelm

Clear, Strategic Insight

Legal, emotional, and intuitive guidance so you understand your options

In-the-moment support

Voxer access when you need help thinking clearly—not spiraling

For when you want to feel clear, steady, and in control again

  • Legal Insight
    Betrayal has real-world consequences. Understanding your options helps you feel safer and make decisions from strength instead of fear.
  • Emotional Relief
    You don’t have to carry this alone. Get grounded support so you can process what’s happening without feeling overwhelmed.
  • Somatic Healing
    Betrayal lives in your body. Simple practices help you release stored stress and feel more steady, calm, and in control.
  • Spiritual Support
    When everything feels uncertain, reconnect with your inner truth and a deeper sense of guidance.
  • All in the privacy of your own home, at your own pace.

Most Programs Give You One Piece. This Gives You the Whole Picture.




Why Work With Lora

Attorney. Clinical Hypnotherapist. Somatic Attachment Practitioner.

Legal Expertise & Advocacy
As a former attorney, I help you understand what’s possible—and what’s not—so you can make clear, grounded decisions about divorce, separation, or protecting yourself.

Clinical Hypnotherapy & Somatic Tools
As a clinical hypnotherapist and somatic attachment practitioner, I help you regulate your nervous system and break obsessive patterns so you can think clearly instead of reacting from overwhelm.

Spiritual Insight
When nothing makes sense, I help you reconnect with your inner truth so you can move forward with clarity and self-trust.

Lived Experience
I’ve been where you are—and I know what it takes to move through betrayal and come out grounded, clear, and whole.

Starting Strong Is Different

Clarity Before Big Decisions

You don’t have to figure everything out right now—but you do need to avoid decisions driven by fear, panic, or pressure.

Regulation Before Conversation

You’ll learn how to calm your nervous system so you can respond thoughtfully instead of reacting in ways that create more damage.

“Betrayal doesn’t define you. What you do next does.”

Truth Without Overwhelm

You’ll get grounded, practical guidance—without spiraling into worst-case scenarios or information overload.

Support When It Actually Matters

You’re not left alone in the hard moments—you have access to guidance when decisions, triggers, or conversations arise.

Is Starting Strong Right for You?

This is for you if you want to move forward without making things worse.

  • You feel overwhelmed and don’t trust your next move
  • You keep going back and forth about what to do
  • You’re afraid of making a decision you’ll regret
  • You want clarity—but not more confusion
  • You’re ready to handle this in a grounded, self-respecting way

If You Aren't Sure You're Ready…

Of course not. This is a lot.

You don’t need to have everything figured out right now.


You just need a clear next step—so you can stop spinning and start moving forward.

Handle This in a Way You Won’t Regret Because this moment matters more than you think.

You get to decide how you move through this.

Right now, it’s easy to react—out of pain, fear, or urgency.
To say things you can’t take back. To make decisions you’re not fully clear on.

Starting Strong gives you the clarity, stability, and guidance to move through this deliberately—so you can look back knowing you handled it with strength, self-respect, and wisdom.

90 Days to Clarity Begins Here

$1,500

Get Started Today

Proof That This Work Changes Things These women once felt exactly where you are—overwhelmed, uncertain, and stuck.

This course changed my life and it can change yours too! Betrayal in a relationship that started with the words, love, honor and cherish until death do us part, had taken away my power, self-esteem, self-worth, ME. For six months, every week, I received a new task, challenge or self-care task from Lora. Some were easy, some hard, and some seemed just plain impossible. Knowing Lora was just a click away for support, if I needed it, I worked the best I could on each assignment and as of today I am continuing to regain my power, increase myself esteem, and I am finding ME! I would recommend this course to any woman who has experienced betrayal of any kind in a relationship. I only wish I’d had it 25 years ago.
Nancy B
I am so thankful for you! This course has helped me to feel like myself again and feel like there is hope for my marriage. My husband apologized and has learned he’s an avoidant and we are going to start therapy soon. I even got a new therapist because of you. That, btw is super amazing! I am making progress every day, and am feeling less triggered. Small steps have been a game changer.
J R
Initially, I didn't think I could "afford" this program. After $18,000 in legal bills I realized I can't NOT afford this. And wow! This has been amazing in ways I couldn't even imagine! Everything you say is exactly what I need to hear. I am going through such a major life change/shift and you literally keep saving my life. Thank yo for what you do. You have helped me so much. This is exactly what I needed to move forward. You are an angel on earth, truly and I look forward to more!
LW
I just wanted to say how this has helped me through SUCH a tough time in my life. I went back and forth so many times over the last 8 months trying to decide if I was going to stay or go. I even made a decision to give it another chance some time ago and sat with that decision. As of yesterday, I made the decision to fully let go and move forward alone and fall in love with myself again and open myself up to new love. I feel so at peace, calm and content with myself.
H A
Lora is an incredible source of knowledge and wisdom. I have had the opportunity to work with her one-on-one and have participated in numerous group events with her as well. Her passion for unveiling the truth and her compassion for each and every person that crosses her path is extraordinary. If you are looking for someone who will truly partner with you in a caring and positive way please reach out to Lora!
K. W.
Lora’s insight is consistently right on, and she has the unique ability to bring comfort and clarity to any situation. Her ethics in delivering positive and helpful messages is second to none. What Lora relays to me is for my higher good and inevitably it calms any questions or fears I’ve had. I don’t trust just anyone but Lora has gained my confidence with her kind nature, immense knowledge of spirituality and energy, and of course, her spot-on accuracy and ability to speak truth into me. I highly recommend her to anyone looking for direction and clarity.
A. M.
​ I have seen Lora several times and have been at one of her workshops as well. She is so wise and insightful; she was able to give me guidance on a relationship and even on how to help my ailing dog. I love her knowledge about the brain and power of the subconscious mind and how that can be harnessed to help you feel better and move forward really gave me hope. Her hypnosis sessions have been helpful for me to overcome some things, too; she knows what to say for my situation. It’s been so insightful working with her, and it’s great to be in her positive energy. She truly wants to help others; I’m very thankful to have found her.
S. H.
Working with Lora has changed everything! She is very knowledgeable, and you can tell how much she cares about everyone and wants to help them get through whatever pain they are dealing with. She takes the time to answer your questions, never judges you, and provides a safe space to get honest and heal. Now that I'm stable from the initial shock, I’m excited to continue my work with her to unpack my subconscious beliefs and finally own my worth!
S. L.
Lora is a phenomenal coach. Her commitment to her students and striving to improve our understanding of betrayal, forgiveness, and our own power is at the core of all her teaching. Her knowledge and wisdom inspire us to work harder and stop settling for less than we deserve. She is positive, warm and caring. Check out her website to see all that she offers. She is a lifetime learner and works hard to improve herself which serves as an inspiration to us. Highly recommend our Lora!
L. S.
I was terrified to try this—because if it didn’t work, I feared nothing ever would. I’d rather stay broken and cling to a little hope than risk finding out I’d be devastated forever. But what happened over these past four months was profound. With Lora and the women in this group, I finally admitted truths I had been too scared to face. Unlike therapy, where I felt like a patient, here I belonged. I was seen, understood, and supported in a way I never had been before. That sense of belonging helped me launch into a whole new chapter. There aren’t enough words, but I can say this: Thank you, Lora. I’m finally free.
J. Z.
Thank you Lora, your energy alone is healing. I wish I had this 25 years ago. Betrayal took my power, my self-worth—ME. With Lora’s guidance, I found myself again.
K. H.
Dearest Lora, I’ve been meaning to tell you how much you saved me from my old self. I started listening to your podcast and I can say without any hesitation it changed me and almost instantly. Might sound dramatic but it was! I felt like you had been peering into my life., I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been called crazy and really believed it. I am thinking so much clearer and I have to say it was you. I feel like I have a chance to get rid of all the things that made me doubt, feel anxious and never really feel secure. I have recommended you to someone whose husband is doing the same thing. They are trying to work it out. That’s what I’ve loved and learned from you, everyone has to have their own ending to their story or beginning which is a better word. Thank you for coming into my life when I desperately needed it. Learning about the psychology behind the serial cheater helped me know that I’m not crazy, in fact, he’s the one that created chaos and drama in our lives, it wasn’t me.
L. L.
Lora!! Holy cow! That was such an incredible and powerful session that you led!! THANK YOU! I wanted to tell you that my inner infant came forward from my solar plexus (I had done some inner child healing work with her before) - and she said she felt unwanted and rejected and I was able to really connect and dance with her. I was also able to really go into feeling majestic - just as I am. Of course, this is all still integrating this next day - but I can clearly see that I wasn't feeling safe in myself. Now I can spend some time with her. Soothing her and rocking her. To know that those stories aren't the truth and I am worthy and safe just as i am. YOU ARE AMAZING!
P. M.
Man, I had a very hard afternoon yesterday and I started listening to more of your podcasts on my way to Denver last night…it was exactly what I needed at the time I needed it! Your guidance has been exactly what I have been looking for in my life (and it’s just so hard to find.) Even my husband said this morning I seem super chipper! So, thank you for helping guide me to where I want to go.
S. F.
For six months, every week, I received a new task, challenge or self-care task from Lora. Some were easy, some hard, and some seemed just plain impossible. Knowing Lora was just a click away for support, if I needed it, I worked the best I could on each assignment and as of today I am continuing to regain my power, increase myself esteem, and I am finding ME! I would recommend this course to any woman who has experienced betrayal of any kind in a relationship. I only wish I’d had it 15 years ago.
C. A.
I already feel more empowered and confident just by joining your program. It took me so time to realize I need to care more intentionally for myself and let go feeling responsible for helping my partner heal from the wounds that allowed him to step outside the marriage. Thank you Lora, your energy alone is healing.
A. K.
Dear Lora, I’m just reaching out to let you know how grateful I am to be part or your group. I have experienced significant healing this summer in your program. I look forward to learning and growing further with you and the women in our group. With so much love and appreciation,
A. H.
I was stuck and decided to try something different, something out of my comfort zone, something with some fun (finally) and I am so glad I did! It has been a Summer of reclaiming and stepping back into my space! I am certainly in a different place now - not stuck, thank goodness. Lora’s coaching has enabled me to reflect on a lot of things. I have really valued the space she created and the support from both her and those in the group over the last three months. It was so good to be in a place where I could just be. So much kindness and acceptance. Lora’s innate sense of joy and fun is infectious - thank you so much! It truly has been a comeback Summer and I have started to rediscover me again and my power.
B.B.
I just want to thank you for your podcasts. They have really helped me start my healing Journey properly. I have felt like I needed to speak to someone that has been through this and come out the other side! Or a couple that have made it through but I guess people don’t make affairs public knowledge purposely so your podcast has saved me and really made my feelings feel so validated.
C. T.